I am standing in Kona de Pele Cafe on Ali’i Drive in Kailua-Kona, Hawai’i. I am waiting for my wife’s chai to be made. We just ate a good breakfast at Bongo Ben’s Island Cafe. Satiated, I look out to the ocean water of Kailua Bay. The light blue of the clear water denoting a sandy bottom ripples up and down next to the deeper blue water covering the black lava rock. The formations undulate as the baby blue of the sky reflects off the water’s surface sparkling like a billion diamonds in your mind.
As I relax to the feeling of the ebb and flow of the world, the real world, the world made of nature and of dreams, my mind drifts to thoughts of Greece… and Italy… and the beautiful, peaceful little waterfront towns which people dream about. I remember how grateful I am that we made the decision to move to Hawai’i. I remember how grateful I am, that when 2 years had passed and we were no closer to living our dream, we made a plan to move to Hawai’i. I remember how grateful we are to be… here… now!!!
I spoke to someone the other day who asked me a question, “Sure this is summer, but what’s the weather like during the winter?” I told them, “Close your eyes. Count to three. Now open them…. This is what it feels like during the winter.” The only real difference is if it was winter you would be looking out to the ocean and watching the whales pass by and jump out of the water as they swim down from Alaska each winter to birth their calves.” He jokingly said, “You must get bored with this view.” I responded, “If I ever get bored with this view, I go swimming with the sea turtles or the dolphins. It helps break up the monotony of the days.” He had a slight look of jealousy mixed with envy mixed with “I wish I could _______, but I can’t because _______!” You can fill in your own blank with your own dream and excuse for not living your life on your terms.
Life is a choice. I am grateful not everyone dreams of living in Hawai’i, otherwise there would be too many people living in Hawai’i. The real question isn’t, “Why are you not living your dream?” The real question is, “What is your dream and what do you need to do to make it happen?” This waterfront town could be any waterfront town throughout the world. Take your pick. The water makes you peaceful. The water makes you relaxed. As you define your dreams remember to post them on your wall, look at them daily, and ask yourself, “What is the single most effective thing I can do towards living my dreams, NOW?!?!”
From a peaceful cafe on a beautiful oceanfront coast somewhere in the world, I welcome you to the world of your dreams and invite you to come play where few dare to venture, but all enjoy upon arrival.
Aloha,
James Christopher
ThruJimsEyes.com
I love Kona. I was just driving through the district of South Kona and it is so green and so very beautiful. When you drive south from Waikoloa Beach, driving through the lunar landscape which is the lava fields, you eventually pass Kona International Airport (KOA) to your right. The airport looks over the water as it is situated next to the ocean on the west side of The Island of Hawaii.
Driving into Kona you have all the joys and trappings of a smaller fishing town, population 11,900 at last census. As you drive south through Kona you see the paths which lead toward the water. Many are marked “Shoreline Access.” You feel that internal yearning to go play in the water recalling days long past of childhood summers spent at the beach. You recall your best days with not a care in the world, laying on the beach, playing volleyball or frisbee, or just walking along the edge of the water, calmed by the rhythmic motion of the waves.
Heading further south as you transition from North Kona to South Kona the road turns from 2 lanes each way at 55 mph to 1 lane each and 25 mph as you enter the town of Kealakekua. You feel your car slow as you see the houses right on the road and businesses as well. There is no break. There is no set back. The plants have turned from grasses to bushes to trees encroaching near the road. Banana, coffee, and many other tropical trees you have never seen before. Mesmerized, you sense by the size and feel of this road that it has been here for more years than you can count. You can see in your mind’s eye what it looked like before it was paved. You watch the street signs disappear. The pavement gone and a wet, muddy, dirt jungle road appears in your mind as your heart delights in the beauty of the flowering plant life that adorns every corner of your vision.
You feel the temperature drop with a cool tropical breeze. Then comes the rain. It’s a light rain. A gentle rain. A warm and comforting rain. You feel the trees’ gratitude for the rain… and you feel grateful. Grateful to the flowers for sharing their blissful scent and aroma. Grateful to all the trees for baring the flowers and for their rich green color and for simply being here. Grateful for the water which allowed the trees to produce the flowers which shared their magnificence. Most of all grateful to Akua, the creator, for creating all that is Hawaii. Mahalo pu’u wai (thank you from my heart).
Mahalo
James Christopher
ThruJimsEyes.com

In the wee hours of the morning all is still, all is quiet. In the wee hours of the morning the moon is setting and the sun still sleeps. The geckos have not warmed their cold blooded bodies, the clouds are still dark all in anticipation of the new morning’s show.
The birds start the show with an early morning song. They call to the sun stating that it’s time to wake up, time to take the stage. The clouds slowly, turn from dark to light blue. You notice the waves crashing on the shore in the distance as the doves coo to each other.
The sun stretches it’s arms reaching across the sky touching the clouds as they melt from blue into cotton candy pink. As more birds awake noting the most precious of times the white heron stretches it’s wings and takes flight. This is the show.
The sun kisses the sky as the pink clouds disappear. The pink becomes white and the dark bobbing ocean dwellers share their true identity. As they shed their dark cloaks in favor of a white distant form revealing their true nature and purpose, they are fishing boats catching your breakfast.
The dark blue of the sky is all gone now. The first signs of human life can be heard in the distance as the bird’s songs hit their crescendo and fade into the recesses of your mind. This is the start of another amazingly beautiful day full of fantastic possibilities. Yesterday is history. Tomorrow’s a mystery. Today is a gift. That’s why they call it The Present. Enjoy it with all your heart.
Mahalo, James Christopher
ThruJimsEyes.com
My wife and I met 11 years ago and we are finally enjoying living the life of our dreams. Travel has been something we have never shied away from. In fact we both believe in taking around 2 months off each year. And we have. My previous career allowed us to do that. It allowed her to not have to work and me to take as much time off as we could afford. Which we did. Why would anyone leave that? I can sum it up in 2 words: residual income. In the past, I did not understand the power of these 2 little words: residual income. I understood the concept of network marketing and I always thought it was pure genius. I am not talking about one of those illegal pyramid schemes. I am talking about a legitimate network marketing company. A company with a good or great product and one who pays their associates on time. Anyway, we finally made the plunge headfirst into network marketing 4 years ago. I will tell you it has been one of the greatest rides of our life. I have always enjoyed a good thrill ride but this is soooo much more. I have heard network marketing discussed by the following words: “It’s not the money. It is who you become in pursuit of the money.” Oh my, were they ever right.
Now if you have taken on the joy of network marketing and you are a newbie or you have struggled with other companies in the past, hear this now, “Get comfortable with being uncomfortable” ~David Wood. It is all about living into your potential. If you are willing to push yourself through any and all predetermined self limitations you will do great. On the other hand, if you are unwilling to do all that for money, why not do all that to live into your dreams. “There’s only 2 things in life. Results or excuses” ~Jase Souder. Since I was in my teens I have had the saying, “Overcome your fears by doing what you fear most. Stare into the eyes of the dragon.” By having this attitude I have been able to step up in ways I thought were pretty good. I now realize they were just that, pretty good. Network marketing became my new addiction because it involves, what Tony Robbins would talk about, CANI: Constant And Never-ending Improvement. David Wood talks about the 2 greatest fears: 1) fear of rejection; 2) fear of public humiliation. Wow, I thought I had conquered those with my previous career. NM takes it to a different level.
The most powerful lessons I have learned on this journey are these: 1) Become a life-long learner; 2) If something scares you or appears difficult, assign a new meaning to it; 3) Everything you have ever done has prepared you for is exact moment in time; 4) Take time to yourself… And keep moving forward. 5) Read everything in your field of interest. “The only difference between you today and you 5 years from now are the books you read and the people you will meet.” ~ Les Brown
As I implemented these lessons in my life I learned to define my dreams with clarity, make a plan of action, and execute the action steps to live my dreams. If I can, anyone can. The lessons/action steps were sometimes scary, difficult, seemingly impossible, and yet as you define your dreams and break down the impossible to the possible you can do anything. How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time.
So don’t listen to anyone who tries to talk you out of network marketing because
“It’s not the money. It is who you become in pursuit of the money.”
aloha,
James Christopher
ThruJimsEyes.com
My wife says I am walking like a duck since I hurt my back. She says I walk like her Uncle Donald. Evidently, he had back challenges as well. I think she is funny. I check out the way I am walking. She’s right. I am walking like a duck.
Last year Leise and I purchased the Skechers Shape-Ups walking shoes. They are designed to tone your body, straighten your spine, give you renewed health and vitality, and grant world peace if you wear them. Okay, maybe not the world peace thing. But they make all these great sales and marketing claims. We were skeptical. But we bought them and tried them out.
They work!!! We have been so very pleased. Like the training DVD that comes with it tells you, “you want to take it easy the first week of wearing the shoes. This is a new type of workout for your body.” It was interesting to having a training video for a pair of shoes. I am grateful they included it. Our calves and butts were definitely feeling the difference in the walking experience. Leise’s butt is getting back to it’s cuteness of when we first met.
When she said “duck” the third or fourth time I said to myself, “Where are my Shape-Ups?” I had not worn them for a while, because I prefer to where them for longer walks and I had not been on a longer walk for a while. This morning I put them on and went for a walk. Immediately I could feel in my right hip where and how my body was out of alignment. Again, I immediately knew Leise was right when she said I had been walking like a duck. I had been!!
Doing my Egoscue back exercises the last three days has made a marked difference in my energy level and back alignment. This is where I mentioned in a prior blog that my nerves would get frazzled due to the mis-alignment of the back. That would effect my overall energy level. Today, between the back exercises and shoes I am feeling well on my way to recovery. If you haven’t read the book, “The Egoscue book of health through motion” by Pete Egoscue, I highly recommend it.
If you know anyone who has back challenges or is part duck, share with them these methods of self healing. I believe that the quality of your life is more important then the length of life. This information just may be the turning point to helping someone regain the vitality they once had.
aloha,
James Christopher
ThruJimsEyes.com
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